The Ordinary Life

There is a remarkable allure associated with fame and celebrity. Many chase after that and even fifteen minutes of fame lasts a lifetime and gets better and better with every retelling. I can understand the seductive lure of the cameras and the lights can be quite intoxicating but, I like anonymity better. What better way to walk the streets than if one is unknown? No one targets you for anything. There is real danger in being a celebrity, a famous person, somebody notable. The creeps and the wierdos come and want to touch you and talk to you and be seen with you. The great artist/musician John Lennon succumbed to the deranged imaginings of John Hinckley who put a bullet that ended not only his life but his brilliant career as a musician. The same thing happened to Princess Diana of Wales who was hounded to her death by camera-wielding paparazzi who eventually caused her accident in Paris, France.

How anyone could live without the freedom of being able to move about without an entourage and bodyguards, go to the park for long walks, enjoy a beer or two at a local pub is simply incredible to me.Does an ant have thoughts of fame and celebrity? Does living a simple, anonymous life, just doing the same thing over and over again cause a bee to have anxious nights dreaming of becoming a Queen Bee? An ant colony is perfectly coordinated with a rigid hierarchy and it has adopted this model for millions of years very successfully. An ant lives a simple life, anonymous and un-celebrated. She is not famous, she has no one chasing after her and yet she lives a full life dedicated to the survival and propagation of her colony.

Maybe it is our individuality which is responsible for this need to be famous, to be a celebrity, to be chased by photographers and autograph-hunters. As individuals we want to stand out. We modify our faces and bodies to conform to a standard of beauty and grace, we take performance-enhancing drugs to become better athletes. In the end celebrity does fade and no one remembers. No one remembers the child stars who were adored as precocious children but lost that allure upon growing up. It is a big blow to their egos as well as their pocketbooks when no one wants to pay to see them perform. All in all, I still choose the simple life, anonymous, free, unfettered, unrestricted and plain.

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There are many people who are addicted to adrenalin rush and they go to great lengths to get their fix; the longer the drop, the greater the high, the bigger the risk the greater the rush. Some get their rush just be being bitchy or getting into fights or arguments. I never was that kind of person. I preferred to be anonymous, not to draw attention to myself .In fact you could say I have an extreme form of shyness where I would dread having to speak up during class or to shout, stop! when riding a bus. Being in a crowd gives me a sense of security as long as people just go about their business and don't mind me at all.

Sipping my morning coffee in peace and watching the distant clouds form and break and listening to the traffic outside is very soothing exercise indeed. Could you perhaps call it meditation? or just daydreaming? Watching the birds as they flit and fly from branch to branch and from tree to tree all the time chirping as though chattering in a conversation that doesn't stay still but moves from topic to topic without let-up, gives me a peaceful feeling as though nothing in the world needs to be fixed.

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